Thoughts..

Accounting for baby involves data entry and determination. Taking care of baby involves a lot more. Both daddy and mummy usually take up a lot more tasks, regardless of the role they play in this, and usually try to do as best as they can. After sometime, in the midst of juggling ones own plate of responsibility, it is easy to take for granted what the other party is doing.

Always remember to be grateful for the things the other party is doing. It can be especially lonely if not. It warms my heart when couples talk of how they appreciate what the other has done and gone thru. Listen to them, but don't have to compare. Comparing is futile, because each circumstances is different. As long as you trust your partner is doing his best, that's good enough.